Dating rituals of the japanese families
– James That’s how it happens when you go to Japan to teach English.Anyway, I cannot say that English plays the major role at the beginning of relationships.Therefore, the features we will talk about here are more general and do not characterize each and every girl in Japan. For this reason, in cases of any manifestation of male lust (the Japanese use the term sukeba, that is, lasciviousness), including even deviant ones, such as rendezvous of mature men with schoolgirls, the sale of the underwear of sexually mature girls (borusera), harassment in public transport (tikan), the condemnation goes for only girls and women who have “naughty” bodies, but not for men, whose sexuality is encouraged in any form, even marginal.“Vestal” women Since the beginning of the Edo period, Japanese men have strictly delineated women as those who may be the object of sexual desire (geisha and prostitutes), and those whose bodies are devoid of sexuality (mothers and wives).
Even outside the country, the situation remains the same. This is partly due to the fact that Japanese girls are usually more open to relationships with foreigners than men are. But is it that easy for a foreigner to understand their deep nature?The article summarizes the experience of foreigners who have been seeing Japanese women.According to the new laws and the image formed in mass media, the position of a pious and chaste wife in the family was limited to fulfilling family responsibilities.
Furthermore, from the legal point of view, a woman did not have any rights: she could not borrow money, give and receive gifts, etc. Women could not file for divorce, they were imprisoned for the betrayal of their husbands.Well, Japan is a country where giving gifts is one of Japanese dating traditions, so it seems like everything is natural, but still be ready for it.