Dating smart guys
“Meanwhile, all my single guy friends love their freedom and tell me to keep dating, too.” Like Garofola, he finds the city’s surplus of datable women to be a con — not a pro — when it comes to finding a potential mate.“There’s temptation everywhere,” says Borich, who finds most of his dates through Bumble, Happn and Plenty Of Fish.
“A lot of marital troubles and divorce stem from people settling in relationships that aren’t compatible for them,” says Notas. It was the only time in my life that I got depressed: poor sleep, suppressed appetite, lotsa Kafka. The next kiss didn’t come for another 4 years, when I was in medical school. Turns out that the skill set required to navigate the tricky waters of romantic interaction wasn’t in any book I had read or any class I had taken. She was also 19, with an irresistible English accent and very cute to boot. Except that she dumped me, pulverizing my heart into nanoparticles.But the big reason why this is important is that I’ve seen entire lives derailed by romantic maladroitness.
I was pretty lucky to bounce back after a couple of months. One of them, Victor, who is my age, is a superbly gifted man – equally talented in both literary and scientific realms.
“By figuring out what you want in a partner and what you need, I think that when you do find that right person, you find out more about yourself.” But he also says men shouldn’t stay in the game too long.