Inconsistent behavior in dating
When his family members overstep their boundaries and he’s consistently unable (or unwilling) to draw a line in the sand and stand up for you, it plants an explosively damaging seed in your mind.
The message you get is: It’s never about choosing you versus them; it’s about showing you that you are his priority now.
This might seem like a contradiction since all women want a man who’s generous and giving, but in truth, no woman wants a "pleaser." Part of what makes you feel attracted-to and confident in your man is his ability to, well, be a man.
He can’t stand his ground when he needs to say no to you.Have you ever spent countless hours trying to move forward with a guy only to realize that despite your strong chemistry and love, he just wasn't going to take that next step? Through my relationship coaching practice, I’ve had the honor of connecting with thousands of women who — despite being smart, successful and beautiful — have faced something painfully similar.Some of these signs might appear obvious, but trust me: many intelligent women miss them, especially if the chemistry with him is strong.When he gets you excited about a plan, does he follow through on it? There are plenty of ways to predict future behavior in a man and integrity is one of the most critical ones.5. You can tell a lot about how committed a man is by his capacity to envision and get excited about a future with you.
When he talks about his goals, does he take action? If your man is not taking into account your needs and desires in his future plans, this shows that he’s either not taking the steps to move into a longer-term relationship or that his fear of losing freedom today is more powerful than his desire to commit.6.
Similarly, when a guy shows up strong at first but quickly loses his passion for you and isn’t willing to do something about it, it’s a warning he’s not valuing you as strongly as he needs to, to make it work.